Sunday, January 18, 2015

Manageable Management

How do you manage a manager who has an issue with you and feels threatened by your team members?

Recently I was approached by a colleague who expressed concern about one of our manager's intentions and their impact on our team directly and indirectly. Honestly, I was not shocked to hear that this specific manager had been working very hard to bring our team down and had dedicated his time to discrediting the senior manager and eventually removing our team and company from the project.

I must also admit that I was initially very angry and wanted to retaliate but as I sat back and listened to the remainder of this evil man's plot to destroy my team for his own benefit I couldn't help but to come up with a plan of my own. So, I said I would not stoop to his level but I will take away the one thing he loves. And that one thing is being a part of anything and everything. He lives for the title of the "Savior" of the team and he absolutely hates not being included. The next step would be to regain the leadership of this project. He has taken over and has been responsible for making all of the rules since the beginning and now would be the best time to remove him from that pedestal.

The colleague who brought me this information agreed that we need to have a team meeting to discuss our game plan and to make a decision to stick to it. Our goal is not to discredit this person but to give him exactly what he wants. Now, all we have to do is sit back and watch.

To be continued...

krl

Friday, January 16, 2015

What I Wore: 1.1.15

What I Wore: 1.1.15

What I Wore 1.15.2015

What I Wore 1.15.2015

Beige shirt
$14 - newlook.com

Lipsy camel coat
$200 - houseoffraser.co.uk

Yves Saint Laurent chain purse
$2,510 - selfridges.com

What I Wore 1.16.2015

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Perfectly Imperfect with Total Confidence

I am just going to be honest and say that confidence is something that I have had all of my life but defining confidence in yourself can be complicated and can sometimes make your life goals really hard to meet. For years, I was confident in my athleticism but that same confidence actually made it harder for me socially in school, at work and in my friendships.

My parents were very strict which made it harder for me to blend in with the kids who were allowed to stay out and attend the many parties. My skills on the track gave me the confidence to be a great athlete but I had no idea how to parlay that same confidence into the rest of my life. I remembered thinking "why can't I be both?" "Why can't I feel confident enough to show my true personality all of the time?" It wasn't until my freshman year of college when I learned that my confidence in myself was 100% dependent upon me first meeting my own expectations. So I decided to set goals for myself. These goals were not your basic goals like graduating college or losing 10 lbs. They were more defined and obtainable. They were goals that meant more to me than just being married with children by 30 or driving the nicest car.

My first goal was to break away from all negativity I willing allowed into my life. This included blocking people out who I really loved but who never made me feel better as a person. My second was finally allowing myself to be myself. This goal was the most important because I come from a family full of outspoken women who were all just alike. I wanted to different and not feel terrible about it.

My reason for writing about this topic is because I have noticed a lot of women holding themselves back from advancement, or even change, for the better because they are too worried about what someone else thinks of them. They are concerned about so many things that are not allowing them to continuously move forward. If you have been following me for a while then have seen me use the hash tag #movingforward.

So, let's take a stand as strong women who are not only the best dressed but are the best at what we do and let's continue to move forward with confidence in ourselves.

Sincerely,


krl

www.saconfidentialbykrl.com